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Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Long term MIA post.... It's finally April 09!! WOW!! Time really flies:) Easter is just few days away!!! Soo excited about it:D Friends out there, must come 4 our CHC Easter Drama Production Svcs!!! I can assure u that ur life will be different & u will be amazed by it!! :D Hmm... Few weeks down e road busy wf work... Too tired 2 post blog...:( Haiz... cant blame... :D Oo ya... Wanna praise lord & congratulate muaii Sec sch Dance Team!!! E SYF they gt Silver award 4 e whole competition!!! Their dance is really awesome!!! Just this 1 word 2 say:) Congrats ZSS SYF Dance Galz!!! Hmm... should ve nth much 2 write nw... B4 i sign out, below i will write about 10 characteritics of Big People... Enjoy...:D **10 Characteritics of Big People... 1) Big people are GENEROUS 2) Big people are ACCEPTING OF DIFFERENCES 3) Big people FORGIVE & FORGET EASILY 4) Big people EMPOWER OTHERS TO SUCCESSFUL 5) Big people DON'T TRY TO BE BIG PEOPLE 6) Big people TREAT LITTLE PEOPLE WELL 7) Big people LISTEN 8) Big people HONOUR LEADERSHIP & ACCEPT GUARDIANCE 9) Big people RESPECT MANNERS & SPACTALITY 10)Big people HAVE BIG CAPACITY I also leart about e difference about a Modern & Emerging Church.... **Modern Church -> Evangelism is an event -> Getting people into Heaven -> Evangelism is done by evangelise -> Evangelism is something that we do in addition of discipleship -> Evangelism is a message **Emerging Church -> Evangelism is a process -> Concern with people in the reality with GOD -> Evangelism is done by people -> Is part of a disciple -> Evangelism is a conversation *CONCLUSION.... What I learnt about is to BE RENEW IN OURSELF, & of course YOUR THINKING WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE!! BELOW IS ABOUT RELATIONSHIP SERIES..... In Relationship series where I got to know about through Pastor Kong's preaching, I also learnt alot from his word of god shared previously...:D I learnt about e 5 general needs of every MAN & WOMAN.... *5 General Needs of a Woman: 1) Affection 2) Conversation 3) Honesty & Openess 4) Financial Support 5) Family Commitment: ~For Family Commitment, there are 5 things that you got to know about for all Husbands & Wife: a) Lots of Time (15hrs/wk) b) Proper Parenting Skills c) Wise Discipline d) Explain Rules e) Handle Anger **5 General Needs of a Man: 1) Sexual Fulfillment 2) Recreational Companionship 3) Attractive Spouse 4) Domestic Support 5) Admiration ***Budget for Every Couple, there are basically 3 of it: 1) What you NEED. 2) What you WANT. 3) What you CAN AFFORD. How to Build Better Relationship? We say or even hear before that people say this "Kindness is Love in action" & "Love is Kind"... In order for us to build good/better relationship, we have to build the people up... & there are 4 things to it... 1) Give them a Personal Challange 2) Giving them Complete Comfort & Confidence ~ a) It needs to be real b) It needs to be regular c) It needs to be recognizable 3) Give them Honest Council ~This applies to your ATTITUDE! 4) Give them Full Credit. ~ It takes effort to be Kind! Last before I end, I also learnt about what is/are Love Busters... The meaning of Love Busters is they are Abusive & is also added with Controlling Habits... There are 6 kinds of Love Busters... 1) Selfish Demands 2) Disrespectful Judgements 3) Angry Outbursts 4) Dishonesty--> This is OFFENSIVE!! 5) Annoying Habits 6) Independent Behaviour We people do lie... But what is/are the real reasons why people lie? There are 4 reasons to it... 1) People lie to PROTECT 2) People lie to LOOK GOOD 3) People lie to AVOID TROUBLE--> This is what we meant by Blame Shifting.... 4) People lie OUT OF COMPULSION. We don't apply on Love Busters in Life... Instead we apply/use of Policy of Radical Honesty & Policy of Joint Agreement!! :) The meaning of Policy of Radical Honesty... -> Reveal as much information about yourself (e.g. Thoughts, feelings, habits, likes, dislikes, etc.) The meaning of Policy of Joint Agreement... -> Never do anything without an Enthusiatic Agreement between you & your spouse That's all summarise updates that I have learnt during CG & of course Sat's svcs... Enjoy reading.. AMEN...:D |
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